BE THE BOSS OF YOUR BIRTH
Jump into the ultimate unbiased birth program that arms you with the must-know tools and no-BS education.
Time to go from feeling uncertain and overly reliant on your provider—into an expectant mother who's confident, in control, and fully clued-in on all YOUR birth choices
You're Probably Thinking Thoughts Like:
- What if I tear?
- What if I can't take the pain?
- What if I poop on the bed?
- How will I know if I am in labor?
- Do I really need a birth plan, and what is the point anyway?
- What if the staff pressures me into what they want?
- And the really big crushing fear… that takes over in the middle of the night… I am bringing home an actual tiny human being!
LABOR NURSE MAMA
Our Birth Classes are like nothing else on the market!
THE CONVENIENCE OF SELF-PACED LEARNING
It’s completely self-paced, so you can study from the app or stream to your TV anytime!
A TAILORED APPROACH TO PLANNING
It walks you through step by step exactly what to expect, how to make decisions, and how to change your plans when presented with new information. No one-size-fits-all advice here.
STRATEGIES FOR INFORMED DECISION MAKING
We prepare you to avoid unnecessary medical interventions once at the hospital but also set you up for success if you end up with a c-section.
UNDERSTANDING YOUR OPTIONS
Our class empowers you and prepares you for any choice you make — home birth, hospital birth, medicated, or non-medicated. We want you to understand how to make choices — not have them made for you.
INSTRUCTION WITHOUT HOSPITAL INFLUENCE
We’re not affiliated with your hospital or any other brand, so our instruction is unbiased and unabashedly in YOUR favor. Not hospital policies like dumb sh*t such as no eating or YOU MUST STAY IN THE BED!
MAKING EDUCATION A SHARED EXPERIENCE
Your partner, mom, MIL, or bestie can learn alongside you — or at their own pace. No schedule coordination or classes after a long day of work.
Hey, I'm Trish, a labor nurse + childbirth educator
I’ve been a high-risk labor and delivery nurse for a long dang time, (over 16 years over high risk travel nursing years!). And I’ve also given birth myself 6 times (<< nope, not a typo)
I’ve delivered thousands of babies (yep, I have the most incredible job in the world!) I want you to understand what you’re capable of. I want you to feel completely confident in your ability to bring this baby into the world (because, yes, that’s what your body was made to do). While I’d love to be there by your side and help you navigate the delivery room like a boss….but as your nurse my power to help you make choices are limited to what your provider orders me to do.
I had this moment about 5 years ago where I said ENOUGH! I was sitting on the bathroom floor in our breakroom crying. Ugly-snotty- crying. I had just taken a FTM mom to the OR for BS reasons and I was over it. But I felt like my hands were tied. I had no clue how I was going to help change the birth culture but I decided I had to try.
I had done everything I could to educate and empower my patient to advocate for her rights but it wasn't enough. I couldn't do enough.
So, I started educating online and hence Labor Nurse Mama was born.
Both of my birth classes combine all of my experience from over 16 years in the labor and delivery room — and gives you the knowledge you need to walk into your birth (no matter where you decide to deliver) with the power to choose. If you do not know your options, YOU DO NOT HAVE ANY!!!
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Calm Labor Confident Birth Class will replace your anxiety + fear with certainty
Your Birth, Your Way
Empowers you and prepares you for any choice you make — whether you’re having a home birth, hospital birth, medicated, non-medicated, or c-section. — not have them made for you
Expert guidance
Taught by a seasoned labor and delivery nurse veteran who has witnessed countless births and brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to guide you through every step of your journey.
Safe and Joyful Birth
Learn how to make informed decisions that align with your unique needs, preferences, and values. Feel empowered to navigate the various options available to you that you may not otherwise know you had.
I did it! I achieved a VBAC!
Yes, it may not have been the birth plan I had written out. But, every decision was made by me. I was empowered. I was educated. And for me, the epidural was better than letting the back labor pain continue. I could rest. I could focus. I could think more clearly.
My husband was educated. My husband advocated for me. My husband stayed flexible.
Without this course, I would have experienced another birth with trauma and PTSD because choices were being made for me, and I wasn’t in charge of my birth.
Because of Calm Labor Confident Birth Class, I had the unmedicated birth I have literally been dreaming of. I was in total control of my choices and felt educated enough to know I was making the right decisions.
I’m extremely thankful for this course and the impact of Trish on my second birth. If you’re new here, you made a great choice by joining this course!!
My natural labor went so fast and so smoothly, and I had Trish's words in my head. “Just breathe; you can do anything for one minute; your body was built to birth your baby,.”
I couldn't have done my natural labor without Calm labor confident birth class so I am just sooooooo happy I educated myself as I was much better equipped to handle it when my plan suddenly changed.
HUGE thanks to Trish and Taylor for the Labor Bat signal and the private DMS as they taught me to advocate for myself and state what I wanted (like don't break my water unless favorable and ripe…etc) .
Overall, my experience was amazing. I’m so grateful for all the knowledge and tools Calm Labor Confident Birth Class gave me to be confident and capable in every decision I made.
And to make it to 7cms before getting an epidural. The environment was calm and relaxed and soo enjoyable… thinking about it still gives me such a high. Without this birth course, I could not have done it and I felt so good about every decision!
Even though it was our 4th birth/child, a great deal has changed since my last was born 9 years ago.
Calm Labor Confident Birth Class led me in the right direction, to research so we didn't have to make decisions nervous and uniformed on the fly.
I want to thank you all, and especially Trish Ware, for Calm Labor Confident Birth Class!
There were 3 times that my epidural wore off in certain spots, but I used everything she taught me to keep calm, breathe, and stay relaxed.
I knew what the nurses were talking about and understood everything that was happening. Overall, I am so happy with how things went, and I know it’s because I was confident and calm!
I'm grateful to be another one of your VBAC SUCCESS STORIES!
I desperately wanted my final baby to be a VBAC and directly through your lessons, emphasis on self advocacy and your introducing me to powerful positions I was able to meet that goal”
I felt so in control and educated throughout all the unexpected decisions I had to make for myself and my VBAC baby.
I love that Trish encourages hiring a doula because she was my absolute rock starting from early labor— I wouldn’t have thought to hire one without the VBAC LAB Birth class.
Being armed with the knowledge Trish provided gave me some control over the situation, and was able to own every decision along the way.
I want to say thank you for helping me achieve my empowered birth. I got my dream birth, and I plan on doing this with my future births and pregnancies!!
Thank you to Trish and the team doulas, and the rest of the team for all the information you arm us with and the support! ❤️
I started to get super stressed about labor, but my husband (who took LNM birth class with me) was so supportive and kept telling me that everything was going to go smoothly and boy did it!
I pushed 3 times and he was born at 9:21pm! So from the time my water broke to when he was born was a total of 1 hour and 50 minutes.
This self-paced online birth class puts you in control!
Once you're in your birth course you'll get:
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Nine Powerful Modules
6 Hours of Video-Based Lessons online inside an app, easily accessible by you and your partner!
Module 1: Welcome to LNM Birth Class
Inside this module, We will introduce you to the lingo and help you make the most of your birth class plan.
Module 2: How to Navigate Pregnancy Choices
Ever wondered what the difference is between a birth center and a hospital birth? This module teaches you everything you need to know about choosing the *right* providers and creating a team that's in your corner.
Module 3: Preparing For Your Birth
Here I start digging into the right birth mindset and helping you understand how much your thoughts affect your labor so that you can keep that cool, calm, and confident throughout the process.
Module 4: Understanding Labor & Delivery
Here I'll teach you how to tell if it's “time” or just a false labor cue. We'll go in-depth, showing you the anatomy and physiology – so you *really* understand what your body is capable of.
Module 5: During labor
Do you know your medical rights? Do you know how to create a birth plan? I'll ensure you have all the training you need to be the queen of the labor room.
Is it going to hurt? What is it going to feel like? I'll give you the honest-to-goodness truth so you can put your fears to rest.
I'll walk you through your options so you can make informed choices about medications.
Should you be induced? What are the risks of a c-section? What if you want to do this naturally?
Here's the thing – if you aren't sure about medical interventions *before* you go into labor – you will have them thrust upon you and have decisions made FOR you that you might regret…this is your chance to get informed before it's too late.
Module 6: Roadblocks, Concerns & Warning Signs
Yep, sometimes some complications crop up, no matter how well you prepare. But I'm here to teach you the warning signs so you can sound the alert the second you think something's wrong. + How to handle them if they do!
Module 7: Testing During Pregnancy
Understanding what tests you'll need to go through during your pregnancy is important. I'll walk you through what to expect at each one so there are no surprises.
Module 8: Cesarean
1 out of 3 births ends in cesarean. This is why I want you to be ready, just in case. This module is an important part of your preparation – one you don't want to skip…and no other birth courses talk about this.
Module 9: Birth De-brief
Inside this bonus module, We will break down your birth experience and allow you to process any potential trauma or mishaps that may have occurred.
Course Companion
A 94-page printable companion workbook/ Ebook with all the tools in an easy-to-understand format.
Includes:
- All the checklists and guides you need are in one handy spot. You can print them and bring them to the birth.
- Birth Plan Template
- Printable Affirmations
Upgrade to All-access to add three extra classes…
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Access #1:
Purposeful Positioning
Your Labor Bat Signal: Your Responsive Virtual Doula and Nurse Support**
Are you ready to experience continuous guidance during the critical moments of your childbirth journey?
Imagine having a beacon of support available whenever you need it, from the moment you're 37 weeks pregnant until the remarkable 12-week mark postpartum.
The Labor Bat Signal is here for you – your ultimate virtual doula and labor nurse, just a message away.
Picture this: You wake up and feel uncertain about the sensations you're experiencing. Could it be labor? Did your water break? Is it time to head to the hospital? Enter the Labor Bat Signal – your direct line to expert advice from seasoned birth professionals who are with you every step of the way.
Your Personal 1:1 Direct Messaging
With the Labor Bat Signal, you'll have a private 1:1 direct messaging channel open to skilled doulas and experienced nurses. This means you're never navigating this journey alone. From the first contractions to the critical decision of when to head to the hospital, you have professionals who know you, understand your unique situation, and can provide personalized guidance aligned with your needs and preferences.
Maximize Your End-of-Pregnancy Moments
The final weeks of pregnancy are a mixture of anticipation and excitement.
The Labor Bat Signal ensures you make the most of these moments.
With expert advice, you'll know how to identify signs of labor, distinguish between false alarms and the real thing, and even properly prepare your body for the upcoming journey.
Empowering Birth Choices
As contractions intensify and your birthing experience unfolds, the Labor Bat Signal remains your guiding light. Whether it's questions about birth interventions, inductions, or pain management options, our professionals empower you to make informed choices that align with your birth plan and personal preferences, ensuring your experience is as positive as possible.
Confidence in Every Step
Envision this: You're navigating the labyrinth of labor, and with each decision, you have a knowledgeable and compassionate expert to rely on. With the Labor Bat Signal, you're infused with confidence, knowing you're equipped with insights and support that extend beyond the virtual realm. You're in control, informed, and surrounded by professionals who are dedicated to your well-being.
Invest in Your Empowered Birth Experience
The Labor Bat Signal isn't just a support system; it's your lifeline to empowered childbirth. Whether you're a first-time parent or a seasoned pro, having a virtual doula and nurse by your side can transform your birth journey into one of strength, knowledge, and grace.
Don't wait – embrace the power of the Labor Bat Signal today. Elevate your childbirth experience, make informed choices, and step into parenthood with a confidence that's truly unparalleled.
Access #2:
The Birth Coach
(Value $197) Creating the Support System You Need. This one’s all about training your partner so they can be as confident and supportive as you need them to be in the labor room.
Inside this class, I will teach your birth coach how to best support you from the moment those first signs of labor show up until the early weeks of postpartum healing. They will understand each stage of labor, the best support techniques, and what to do when!
Don't worry, mama, I got your back. Your birth coach won't be caught slacking.
Access #3:
The Birth Coach
Imagine the feeling of walking away from your weekly hangout with a doula and/or a labor nurse; your heart lightened, your concerns addressed, and your confidence soaring.
The experience isn't just a conversation – it's a transformative journey that leaves you equipped with insights, reinvigorated with positivity, and connected to a support system that truly understands your journey.
Reassured and Supported: As you conclude the hangout, a reassuring sense of support envelopes you. You've had the opportunity to discuss your questions, share your worries, and receive answers rooted in expertise and compassion. Whether it's pregnancy-related queries, doubts about the birthing process, or concerns about postpartum recovery, you've been heard and validated.
Empowered Decision-Making: Walking away from the hangout, you feel empowered to make decisions aligned with your personal journey. The guidance from the doula and labor nurse has armed you with knowledge, enabling you to navigate choices with confidence. You're no longer overwhelmed by the vast sea of information; you're equipped to make informed choices that resonate with your values and aspirations.
A Deeper Connection:The weekly hangouts aren't just about information; they foster a deeper connection between you, the experts, and fellow participants. You're part of a community that shares experiences, learns together, and grows together. The camaraderie provides a sense of belonging, reminding you that you're never alone on this transformative path.
Reduced Anxiety and Stress: The knowledge gained during the hangout serves as a balm to the anxiety that often accompanies the journey into parenthood. Your concerns have been met with evidence-based information and practical advice, replacing fear with a sense of readiness. The weight on your shoulders has lifted, replaced by a newfound calmness that extends beyond the virtual space.
Anticipation Fueled with Positivity: As you move forward towards your birth, you feel a renewed sense of anticipation. The challenges ahead are met with optimism, as the insights from the hangout have illuminated your path. You're not just preparing for the unknown; you're stepping into the future armed with understanding and optimism.
A Continual Journey: The hangout's impact doesn't dissipate as it concludes; it continues to resonate throughout your week. The advice, stories, and camaraderie linger, providing a gentle reminder that you're part of a community that's invested in your well-being. You're encouraged to explore, learn, and grow until the next hangout, where the journey continues anew.
You've taken active steps to prioritize your journey, engage with experts, and connect with peers who share your path.
You're not just preparing for birth & parenthood; you're embracing it with the strength and positivity that comes from being informed and supported.
Access #4:
Purposeful Positioning
(Value $197) Our most popular pushing and movement class. This is the class everyone has been scrambling to get their hands on and you're getting it FREE!!
Inside, I will teach you my favorite insider moves for labor and for pushing. I've taken years of laboring mamas and my own labor experience and created a step-by-step guide teaching all the moves needed to position the baby and relieve pain during labor.
I've also added my peanut ball tips, which are a lifesaver if you get an epidural or not.
Access #5:
The Birth Coach
(Value $197) Creating the Support System You Need. This one’s all about training your partner so they can be as confident and supportive as you need them to be in the labor room.
Inside this class, I will teach your birth coach how to best support you from the moment those first signs of labor show up until the early weeks of postpartum healing. They will understand each stage of labor, the best support techniques, and what to do when!
Don't worry, mama, I got your back. Your birth coach won't be caught slacking.
Access #6:
The Birth Coach
(Value $197) Elevate Your Postpartum Experience: Knowledge for Recovery and PPD Prevention & Recognition
Are you prepared for the incredible journey of postpartum recovery?
The period following childbirth is a time of immense change, both physically and emotionally.
That's why we've curated a comprehensive postpartum education class within our All-Access Pass, designed to equip you with the tools you need for a smoother recovery and the prevention-recognition of postpartum depression (PPD).
Imagine feeling fully informed about the physical changes your body will undergo after childbirth.
Envision having a roadmap to navigate the emotional challenges that might arise during the postpartum period.
Our postpartum education class isn't just a collection of information; it's a guide that empowers you to prioritize your well-being and mental health during this transformative time.
Access #7:
Weekly Virtual Hangout
As you prepare to welcome your precious newborn into the world, we're here to guide you every step of the way through our comprehensive Newborn Academy class.
1. Informed Decision-Making: From feeding choices to sleep schedules, you'll have the knowledge to make informed decisions that resonate with your parenting philosophy.
Community Access: Inside CMS you have access to, lactation consultants, and newborn development specialists, our Newborn Academy offers insights grounded in expertise.
3. Practical Skills: From diapering techniques to soothing methods, our class provides hands-on demonstrations of essential parenting skills.
Our class equips you with strategies to manage these obstacles, fostering resilience and reducing stress.
Imagine You've completed the Newborn Academy and are now holding your precious bundle of joy in your arms. As you navigate those initial days and weeks, you experience a unique blend of emotions:
Confidence:Armed with a wealth of information and practical skills, you approach each task with a newfound sense of confidence.
Understanding your newborn's needs and behaviors helps you foster a sense of connection and trust between you and your baby.
When challenges arise, you draw upon the strategies and insights from the Newborn Academy. This resilience guides you through sleepless nights and teary moments, reminding you of your capability as a parent.
Your journey is enriched, and you're filled with a sense of gratitude for the resources at your disposal.
The Newborn Academy ensures that you're well-prepared to navigate this journey with confidence, understanding, and joy. From your baby's first cries to their first steps, you're equipped to create a nurturing environment that fosters growth, connection, and love
Frequently Asked Questions
What makes your birth course different than others?
This is an all-inclusive birth course taught by a labor and delivery nurse with 16 + years of experience.
I am not affiliated with any hospital or brand and only want what's best for YOU and your baby.
In other words, your interest is my main goal.
What if I want a VBAC?
Choose the VBAC lab; this is not just a module slapped onto a birth course.
This all-inclusive VBAC-focused birth course is designed with the cesarean patient in mind. Not only do you get comprehensive education, but take part in our mama membership for 30 days of free personalized support through weekly group coaching.
This course teaches you how to patiently navigate a slow VBAC labor with understanding and power.
How much time do I need to take the course?
I am so glad you asked. We get this question often. Calm Labor Course is completely self-paced, so you can watch in snippets of time over a couple of weekends or sit down and binge the whole thing in less than 4-6 hours. Depending on how many weeks you are. (We recommend skipping the navigating early pregnancy choices if you are over 39 weeks.)
I'm not preggo yet, how long do I have to access?
Girl, this course is yours for life.
You can also add the membership option and then join the birth class at around 34 weeks.
You will have access to the course and any updates forever. It's yours to explore at your own pace. You can do this course any time throughout your pregnancy – or even if you are planning a future pregnancy. Doing the course before you're pregnant would give you tools that are invaluable for making decisions about your pregnancy.
I'm in my 3rd trimester, is it too late to take the course?
Absolutely not! Unless you're about to start pushing, chances are you've got time to review the videos and learn a ton. This is totally self-paced, so you can work on it at any time and complete it all in less than 4-6 hours. Plus, the support as you embark on your postpartum journey is priceless. (see what makes us different FAQ above)
I'm not a first time mom. Can I still benefit from this?
Yes! Especially if your last birth didn't go as smoothly as you wanted. Birthing a baby isn't something you do every day – studying up on how to make things go in your favor is always a good idea.
This birth you will be in control and the queen of the room!
I'm planning on a home birth, is this course for me?
Definitely. I will walk you through all the pain management techniques you need and you'll appreciate my advice helping you to avoid interventions including going to the hospital.
We love home birth and birth center births around here. They Rock!
I'm scared, what if I can't do this?
Your body is perfect. Your body was made to birth this baby. This baby was made for YOUR body. Birth is not new. Women throughout all of history have been birthing babies. You've got this.
What is Calm Mama Society?
Monthly workshops ranging from pregnancy to baby must-knows. Our network of experts is coming alongside you through QA's and workshops.
We offer a “Labor Bat Signal” DM option after 37 weeks; we will have you create a group chat with our doula and me, where you have unlimited access to us both.
Not sure if your water broke, no problem; send us a pic! In labor or not in labor, ask a labor nurse!
We also hang out weekly with our mamas in our Calm Labor Happy Hour via Zoom, and we have a brand new postpartum happy hour.
Calm Mama Society is a community where you can be you and feel safe becoming the mama you desire to be.
You can choose to upgrade to an All-Access Option at checkout; this will give you membership into CMS and 5 bonus classes.
( we do not offer refunds due to the product's digital nature, please email [email protected] to cancel at any time!)
Can you remind me of everything I’m getting today?
You will get the immediate online access to
The entire 9-module birth course- Calm Labor, Confident Birth, or VBAC LAB (you choose your path)
The 94+ page Course Companion Ebook complete with printable downloads for your birth experience
FOUR BONUSES to ACCESS immediately
Bonus 1: Purposeful Positioning class
Bonus 2: The Postpartum Recovery Guide Class
Bonus 3: The Birth Coach Class
**Bonus 4: 30 Days free Calm Mama Society Membership
Inside, you will have the following:
- Weekly Live Support Group and access to a labor nurse, a doula, and other birth peeps.
- The opportunity to create a Labor Bat signal with a labor nurse/doula for a private DM chat after 37 weeks until 6 weeks postpartum.
- Access to postpartum support through Calm Mama membership
What if I end up being a scheduled cesarean?
Don't worry mama, we include the basic tools needed for a cesarean. You also have access to our powerful Belly Birth Class inside Calm Mama Society as a member.
What if I have a doula?
Having a doula is an absolute game-changer! Their hands-on support is incredible and can truly transform your birth experience. But guess what? Evidence-based education can have the same impact.
Here's the deal: you don't want to leave your birth up to chance or rely solely on someone else. You need to be in charge, fully empowered, and understand every step of your pregnancy and birth journey. It's time to take control! 💪🤰
Is this class HSA/FSA eligible? (Insurance covered?)
Our birth classes are eligible for FSA/HSA reimbursement under most insurance plans. In some cases, you can use your FSA or HSA to pay directly for the classes.
We've also seen some insurance plans cover a portion of the fee if not all of the cost of the classes, but this seems to be not as common.
When you enroll, you will be sent a receipt, the insurance billing codes are included, please keep this to send to your company. Some insurance companies also require more info. Please reach out to [email protected] for more help.
What if I don't want the Virtual Labor Support or Community?
No worries, just choose the birth class stand alone option at checkout.
Select Your Path to Empowerment: Birth Class or All-Access Mastery?
Plans & Pricing
Ready to get started?
Self-Study Birth Class
- 9 module Birth Class
- 94 page companion ebook
- Printable labor postitions guide
- Labor bat signal- 1:1 Virtual Support
- Purposeful Positioning Class
- The Birth Coach Class
- The Postpartum Recovery Map Class
- The Newborn Academy Class
- Virtual doula access
- Monthly Expert workshops
- Weekly Birth Coaching
- Weekly postpartum healing group
- Guest Motherhood Summitt
- Library of workshop recordings
All-Access Experience
Virtual Support & Community- 9 module Birth Class
- 94 page companion ebook
- Printable labor postitions guide
- Access to Labor Nurse
- Virtual doula access
- Labor bat signal- 1:1 Virtual Support
- Purposeful Positioning Class
- The Birth Coach Class
- The Postpartum Recovery Map Class
- The Newborn Academy Class
- Monthly Expert workshops
- Weekly Birth Coaching
- Weekly postpartum healing group
- Free Ticket to Guest Motherhood Summitt
- Library of workshop recordings
Select Your Path to Empowerment: Birth Class or All-Access Mastery?
Plans & Pricing
Ready to get started?
All-Access Experience
Virtual Support & Community- 9 module Birth Class
- 94 page companion ebook
- Printable labor postitions guide
- Labor bat signal- 1:1 Virtual Support
- Purposeful Positioning Class
- The Birth Coach Class
- The Postpartum Recovery Map Class
- The Newborn Academy Class
- Virtual doula access
- Monthly Expert workshops
- Weekly Birth Coaching
- Weekly postpartum healing group
- Free Ticket to Guest Motherhood Summitt
- Library of workshop recordings
Self-Study Birth Class
- 9 module Birth Class
- 94 page companion ebook
- Printable labor postitions guide
- Labor bat signal- 1:1 Virtual Support
- Purposeful Positioning Class
- The Birth Coach Class
- The Postpartum Recovery Map Class
- The Newborn Academy Class
- Virtual doula access
- Monthly Expert workshops
- Weekly Birth Coaching
- Weekly postpartum healing group
- Guest Motherhood Summitt
- Library of workshop recordings